Friday, February 13, 2015

Last part: Love Dare

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Happy Valentines day in advance to you. Nafurahi leo kupost sehemu ya mwisho ya Love Dare. Naomba umshirikishe rafiki, jirani na ndugu yaho kuhusu hizi Love Dare hujui ni nani utakaye msaidia. Naomba nikutakie kila la heri.

35. Love is Accountable: Find a marriage mentor—someone who is a strong Christian and who will be honest and loving with you. If you feel that counseling is needed, then take the first step to set up an appointment. During this process, ask God to direct your decisions and discernment.

 36. Love is God’s Word: Commit to reading the Bible every day. Find a devotional book or other resource that will give you some guidance. If you spouse is open to it, see if they will commit to daily Bible reading with you. Begin submitting each area of your life to its guidance and start building on the rock.

37. Love Agrees in Prayer: Ask your spouse if you can begin praying together. Talk about the best time to do this, whether it’s in the morning, your lunch hour, or before bedtime. Use this time to commit your concerns, disagreements, and needs before the Lord. Don’t forget to thank Him for provision and blessing. Even if your spouse refuses to do this, resolve to spend this daily time in prayer yourself.

38. Love Fulfills Dreams: Ask yourself what your mate would want if it was obtainable. Commit this to prayer, and start mapping out a plan for meeting some (if not all) of their desires, to whatever level you possibly can.


39. Love Endures: Spend time in personal prayer, then write a letter of commitment and resolve to your spouse. Include why you are committing to this marriage until death, and that you have purposed to love them no matter what. Leave it in a place that your mate will find it.


40. Love is a Covenant: Write out a renewal of your vows and place them in your home. Perhaps if appropriate, you could make arrangements to formally renew your wedding vows before a minister and with family present. Make it a living testament to the value of marriage in God’s eyes and the high honor of being one with your mate.



Usisaha kufanya quiz ya 5 love languages. Naamini nazo zimekuwa msaada.









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