Love dare

Hello everyone..

Kila mahali 'nikiclick' wiki hii ni Valentine Valentine. Ok moja ya movie inayotamba sana moyoni mwangu ni Fireproof my marriage. Ngoja nikwambie weka nia ya kuitazama, itabadili mawazo yako kuhusu upendo.

Kwenye movie hiyo kuna kitabu kinaitwa Love Dare. Kitabu hiki kinainspire upendo kwenye another level. Kuna task za kufanya daily. Tips hizi zitabadili kabisa mwelekeo wa mahusiano yako. Anza sasa na iwe ndo mpango wa 2015. Kila siku ntapost Love Dare 8 mpaka jumamosi.

 1. Love is Patient: The first part of this dare is fairly simple. Although love is communicated in a number of ways, our words often reflect the condition of our heart. For the next day, resolve to demonstrate patience and to say nothing negative to your spouse at all. If the temptation arises, choose not to say anything. It’s better to hold your tongue than to say something you’ll regret.

 2. Love is Kind: In addition to saying nothing negative to your spouse again today, do at least one unexpected gesture as an act of kindness.

3. Love is not selfish: Whatever you put your time, energy, and money into will become more important than you. It’s hard to care for something you are not investing in. Along with restraining from negative comments, buy your spouse something that says, “I was thinking of you today.”

 4. Love is Thoughtful: Contact your spouse sometime during the business of the day. Have no agenda other than asking how he or she is doing and if there is anything you could do for them.

5. Love is Not Rude: Ask your spouse to tell you three things that cause him or her to be uncomfortable or irritated with you. You must do so without attacking them or justifying your behavior. This is from their perspective only.

6. Love is Not Irritable: Choose today to react to tough circumstances in your marriage in loving ways instead of with irritation. Begin by making a list below of areas where you need to add margin to your schedule. Then list any wrong motivations that you need to release from your life.

7. Love Believes the Best: For today’s dare, get two sheets of paper. On the first one, spend a few minutes writing out positive things about your spouse. Then do the same with negative things on the second sheet. Place both sheets in a secret place for another day. There is a different purpose and plan for each. At some point during the remainder of the day, pick a positive attribute from the first list and thank your spouse for having this characteristic.

8. Love is Not Jealous: Determine to become your spouse’s biggest fan and to reject any thoughts of jealousy. To help you set your heart on your spouse and focus on their achievements, take yesterday’s list of negative attributes and discreetly burn it. Then share with your spouse how glad you are about a success he or she recently enjoyed.

Mpaka kesho.