Pregnancy when the circumstances "seem" wrong

 Hello everyone,

So I promised you that I will share with you what you do when you are pregnant and circumstances "seem" wrong. If you have noticed the word seem is in "..". This is because I believe and it will help you too to believe that nothing in your life happens by accident, they are in God's control, they are a result of our doing and as a result of forces beyond us.

In the case of a child I hate to call a child an "accident". It doesn't matter how they were conceived they are never a mistake. Kwenye mawazo yetu tunadhani wakati si sahihi ila ndo wakati uliokubalika, make the most of it.

Awali nilisema yale mambo ya kufanya unapojua umjamzito:

1. Ni muhimu kumwambia mwenzako haraka sana.
Hata kama inaonekana ana hali ya kutokubali ni muhimu kufahamu mapema ili kuondoa hali ya mvurugano baadae. Uwazi ni muhimu sana.

Tahadhari: kama huna uhakika na nani baba wa mtoto usimdanganye mtu ili uolewe au upate fidia fulani.

2. Biga magoti na fanya hivi; kama umepata mimba nje ya ndoa tubu na weka agano na Mungu la kusonga mbele, na mshukuru sana Mungu maana anakupenda. Biblia inasema, "Shukuruni kwa kila jambo maana yote ni mapenzi ya Mungu". Kama uko ndani ya ndoa, huu ni muda wa kumshukuru Mungu kwa baraka zake tele.

Soma barua hii kutoka kwa baba kwenda kwa binti yake aliyepata mimba nje ya ndoa:

"I just got you letter today.

1. Remain assured that you are our unique daughter and mom and I love you

2. God loves your still, and still has a good plan for you.

3. That in everything, God works for good for those that love him, those that are called according to His purpose: "For in hope were we saved: but hope that is seen is not hope: for who hopeth for that which he seeth?But if we hope for that which we see not, 'then' do we with patience wait for it. And in like manner the Spirit also helpeth our infirmity: for we know not how to pray as we ought; but the Spirit himself maketh intercession for 'us' with groanings which cannot be uttered; 

And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to 'the will of' God. And we know that to them that love God all things work together for good, 'even' to them that are called according to 'his' purpose. For whom he foreknew, he also foreordained 'to be' conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren: And whom he foreordained, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified." Rom 8

Do two things1. Seriously repent and come back. Don't stay wallowing in the mud2. Look forward and never look back. You have golds over there, don't stay in the mud. TOUGH TIMES NEVER LAST, TOUGH PEOPLE DO!"

Be encouraged by this and please jipe moyo. When you are weak is when you are strong. 

Have a great weekend all.