Tumalizie zile Love languages zilizobaki, jana tuliona 2, leo tumalizie 3, naamini zitakupa nafasi ya kujua jambo jipya. Ila usisahau kutembelea website ya 5lovelanguages.com ilikujua love language yako ila hiyo quiz itakuwa na maana sana kama mpenzi wako ataifanya pia ili ujue what works for him or her.
Receiving Gifts
In every society throughout human
history, gift giving has been perceived as an expression of love. Giving gifts
is universal, because there is something inside the human psyche that says if
you love someone, you will give to him or her.
What many people do not understand
is that for some people, receiving gifts is their primary love language. It's
the thing that makes them feel loved most deeply. If you're married to someone
whose primary love language is gift giving, you will make your spouse feel
loved and treasured by giving gifts on birthdays, holidays, anniversaries and
"no occasion" days.
The gifts need not be expensive or
elaborate; it's the thought that counts. Even something as simple as a homemade
card or a few cheerful flowers will communicate your love to your spouse.
Little things mean a lot to a person whose primary love language is receiving gifts.
Quality Time
If your spouse's love language is
quality time, giving him or her your undivided attention is one of the best
ways you can show your love. Some men pride themselves on being able to watch
television, read a magazine, and listen to their wives, all at the same time.
That is an admirable trait, but it is not speaking the love language of quality
time.
Instead, you must turn off the TV,
lay the magazine down, look into your mate's eyes, and listen and interact. To
your spouse, 20 minutes of your undivided attention – listening and conversing
– is like a 20-minute refill of his or her love tank.
Men, if you really want to impress
your wife, the next time she walks into the room while you are watching a
sporting event, put the television on mute and don't take your eyes off her as
long as she's in the room. If she engages you in conversation, turn the TV off
and give her your undivided attention. You will score a thousand points and her
love tank will be overflowing.
Physical Touch
We have long known the emotional
power of physical touch. That's why we pick up babies and touch them tenderly.
Long before an infant understands the meaning of the word love,
he or she feels loved by physical touch.
In marriage, the love language of
physical touch includes everything from putting a hand on your mate's shoulder
as you walk by, touching his or her leg as you're driving together, and holding
hands while you're walking to kissing, embracing and sexual intercourse.
If physical touch is your spouse's
primary love language, nothing
communicates love more clearly than for you to
take the initiative to reach out and touch your mate.
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Nawapenda wote,
ATM
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